Quebec: Day 2/3

Theatre: Les Miserables was showing.

This angel is a real person.

Part of the wall

Grain elevators

Chateau Frontenac in background

Murals

We loved the white hydrangeas we saw everywhere in Quebec.

Alice at harbor, first stop

Alice and our friendly bus driver

City Hall

Sunday breakfast at Saint-Bernard

Sunday, August 2nd: After our lengthy travels the day before, both Alice and I were ready for a rest. We had no food in our fridge so we went out for breakfast at Saint Bernard Resto-Pub, Mont Ste. Anne. This particular restaurant serves breakfast only on weekends. We enjoyed our meal and were happy we had taken the advice of Johanne the very lovely resort tour guide. Later in the day we bought a few groceries (eggs, bread, muesli, yogurt, milk, coffee, fruit) so that we could start each day with a good breakfast and have some food for snacking on hand. Was this the day we went to a presentation by Joanne on what to do in the area?

Monday, August 3rd: We boarded a small bus at our resort and went to Quebec for a tour of the old part of the city. We had a delightful bus driver who not only was knowledgeable about the area but also had a good sense of humour. Our first stop was below the wall where we had a great view of the Chateau Frontenac as well as the grain elevators on the St. Lawrence. Next we made another stop below the wall in an area of restaurants and shops. We were given a short period of time to check out the area. We went inside Quebec City's oldest church, admired murals painted on outside building walls, and enjoyed getting the feel of Old Quebec. After this we went back to the bus and were taken inside the wall. We stopped at a vantage point where we had a good view of the St. Lawrence and could also see the Citadel. We later drove inside the walls of the Citadel. It was interesting to hear that although Montcalm and the French built the fort to defend themselves from the British they went outside the walls to battle the Brits. It seems they took the battle away from the city in order to protect the people living there. Both Wolfe and Montcalm were killed in battle and both lost about the same number of men. In negotiation, the British were declared winners. Later the Citadel was effective in protecting the British when they were attacked by American forces. Today the famous Quebec Vingt-deuxs reside within the walls of the Citadel. We were dropped off in front of City Hall and had two to three hours to explore on foot and have lunch. During this time we ate lunch at a crepery, had a ride on the Funiculaire (chair lift) from above the wall to below the wall and back, and took in some live street entertainment. Old Quebec City was enchanting and we certainly could have spent all of our holiday in that city. Another interesting note: Laval University was originally in Old Quebec City, not far from the Chateau Frontenac. It was later moved except for the Faculty of Architecture which remains in Old Quebec as there are so many examples of French and English architecture.

Note to Crystal K.: Your comments are appreciated. Thank you! I tried emailing you with your address from your blog but got the reply 'invalid address.'

Quebec: Day 1

View from our accommodation
Alice in our kitchen/living area

On Saturday, August 1st, Alice and her friend Cara picked me up at Laurel's house in Leduc, and we headed for the International Airport close by. (Helge had taken me to Laurel's the night before. Laurel had invited us and Lee and Marian for Friday night supper. It was great to have some quality visiting time with them. I was sorry to hear about cousin John's health issues.) We left the airport at 10:00 a.m. and arrived in Montreal at 3:45 p.m. Our travelling companion was a very pleasant teen who was returning home to St. Saveur after having visited his father in Edmonton.

Alice had arranged a Hertz rent-a-car through AMA to be picked up at the airport. The shocker was that the price was more than double what AMA had quoted. About 30% was tax: GST, PST, municipal tax, airport tax. Insurance was a huge chunk, about $400. Since we had not rented in eons we did not realize that we could have arranged insurance for a rental through our regular provider or that some credit card companies cover rental insurance. (We will have to look into this.)

Our rental vehicle was a small but cute blue Toyota Yaris. I took the wheel, whilst Alice navigated. (We had played these roles many times in the past, so this felt comfortable for both of us.) Our first challenge was getting out of Montreal. It took a bit of running around in circles, but we eventually made it. We headed east on Highway 40 on the northern side of the St. Lawrence. It was a beautiful drive. One of the exits along this highway was to Trois Riviere. We decided not to stop anywhere as we might have trouble getting back to the #40 and we wanted to reach our destination before dark. We arrived at Beaupre just as darkness was falling. The exit we were to take to Mont St. Anne to our accommodation was blocked by construction. We went straight through the intersection and turned around, taking the exit from the opposite direction. We arrived safely at our destination between 8 and 9 in the evening. After checking in, we ordered a late supper at the on site restaurant. Our pizza had too much cheese but it was good to eat after so many hours without any food or water.

Four Month Review

REVIEW IN PICTURES

Peace River: Shaking hands after adult's games is what the kids love best!
Parker, future hockey great - love soother/stick combo!

Spencer at Kindergarten Grad: Look at that focus!

Madison at Danish Canadian National Museum grounds

Three generations: Jonas, Melanie, and Alice at Vanessa's Baby Shower
Nadine and Makai at V's Baby Shower

Madison and Vanessa at V's Baby Shower

Genesis with Grandma Alice at V's Baby Shower

Vanessa's son Zech at her baby shower

Love my begonias

Judie and Barb at Innisfail Historical Village

Elaine and Inez Kimber on steam train

Marlene, Nola, Neil, Auntie Janet

Beautiful U of A Campus

Helge and Madison for Helge's 66th Birthday

Elaine, Joyce, Connie, and Cathy at Compassion House

Sonja and Elaine at Festival Place, Sherwood Park

Belgravia Books and Treasures

REVIEW IN TEXT

April Highlights (last half):

1. A most enjoyable visit from John Stone - artist, neighbour, and friend. John shared many of his past memories. He told us of a pet heifer he had as a child. Times were tough and the family needed to sell some cattle. Sadly the pet was the one the buyer desired. John always had a way with horses. As a young child he often sat on the plough behind the horses. When finished his work for the day he would be covered in dirt. In the early eighties John had about a hundred Arabian horses. Hard times meant having to sell. The amount of money he got for his horses was a mere fraction of what he had anticipated. John told of a horse that did tricks including standing on his hind legs. That horse was eventually sold. John later visited the horse at its new owners in B.C. It had become tired of performing tricks. The horse recognized John immediately and was more than happy to perform for him!!

2. Grand re-opening of Ravenwood Meats. This was an enjoyable day with good food, visiting friends (Maxine from Lazy M), and listening to music especially Allen Christie.

3. Dancing in the new James River Hall to the music of Allen Christie and Friends. Allen is a very talented local singer-songwriter.

May Highlights:

I had 20 days of radiation treatment at the Cross Cancer Center in Edmonton. Treatment was on weekdays only so I was able to go home a couple of weekends. During my time in Edmonton I stayed with Kai and Sonja at Kai's place. The exception was the one week that I stayed at Compassion House.

1. Visits with Auntie Janet, Nola, Neil, Marlene, Nadine, Franco, Aolani, Makai, and Theresa.

2. Compassion House: I enjoyed my stay at Compassion House, especially visiting with other people in a similar situation to my own. I did some beading with a Wellness Group that meets at the house once a week. I received beautiful gifts that had been donated to Compassion House: a raspberry prayer shawl and a mauve fan-and-feathers afghan. I had a fun evening of karaoke with Sayler Reins' daughter.

3. Belgravia Books and Treasures: The Cross Cancer Center was within walking distance of Compassion House so I enjoyed walking to the center whilst staying at the house. My most exciting find on this walking journey was this wonderful secondhand bookshop.

4. Checked out two beading/craft stores: Bedrock Supply recommended by Jackie Cooper and DeSerres at West Ed recommended by my niece, Vanessa. Crimpz Bead Boutique at Sherwood Park is on my 'to do' list.

5. Spent a day with my colleagues at the Excalibur Conference at Lister Hall. I also enjoyed a walk around the U of A (my alma mater) campus.

6. Celebrating Helge's 66th birthday. I tried a new recipe from Canadian Living we enjoyed: a lemon coconut cake.


June Highlights:

I laid low in the month of June. About a week-and-a-half after I had completed radiation I experienced some unpleasant side effects, including mucus discharge and large areas of exposed skin. My chemo oncologist, Dr. Tarakandirwa prescribed an antibiotic for me. This helped the healing process immensely.

1. We enjoyed a trip to Peace River and spending time with Jarl, Rebecca, grandsons Spencer and Parker.

2. I enjoyed a trip with the Caroline Red Hatters on the steam train from Stettler to Big Valley. We had a superb home-cooked meal at the Hall in Big Valley and had a small amount of time to look around. I purchased some homemade fudge and bread. I was impressed by the little antique shop in Big Valley and would like to return to spend more time there. I would also like to get a picture of the blue church.

3. Helge, Madison, and I enjoyed a tour of Sanctum Retreat given by Kristoph Dobrowolksi. Sanctum Retreat was founded by Kristoph and his wife Mariette, Catholic theologians and classically-trained musicians. It is located 4km west of Caroline and offers retreats for women, men, 12-step participants, clergy, etc. (See http://www.sanctumretreat.ca/) Sanctum Retreat is looking at the possibility of building senior accommodations on their property. Seniors thrive in an environment where they are connected and feel useful. They could help out at Sanctum by watering plants, baking or helping in whatever area they have interest.

Kristoph was a delightful host. We were invited to stay for supper in the Solarium dining room. Madison played outdoors with K&M's son who is close in age to her. Kristoph gave me a CD "Lilies of the Field," a presentation of scriptures set to music. He produced it for his Mother who also had breast cancer. (I was surprised to discover that a few Caroline locals had been working at Sanctum for some time, including Carmen Kanten, the wonderful cook. Carmen was one of the first people I met when I moved to Caroline. She is a neighbour, married to Oscar Kanten. She is originally from Puerto Rico and is a beautiful person inside and out. She lost her lower leg to cancer at the age of 15. This has not held her back in any way. She radiates beauty and joy!!)

July Highlights:

1. Madison, our granddaughter spending weekdays with us.

2. Canada Day: Pancake breakfast and parade in Spruce View. Visit to the Wildlife Museum in Sundre (recommended by John Stone.) Beef-on-a-bun and anniversary cake for supper followed by live entertainment (magician and comedian) to celebrate 100 years since opening of Sundre Post Office.

3. BBQ/Potluck at Carolyn and Charles Reum's. Charles' brother was visiting from the U.S. It was great to see Jana, Leilani, and Malia who were home for the occasion.

4. Helge, Madison and I enjoyed Aeblskiver Days at the Danish Canadian National Museum near Spruce View.

5. I enjoyed Friday afternoon tea (July 10th) with Pat, Judy, and Barb at the Innisfail Historical Society.

6. Helge, Madison and I enjoyed Fred Eaglesmith at the Grandview Stage Resort. Opening act was by the very enjoyable Ginn Sisters who also sing back-up for Fred.

7. My friend Judie and I attended performance of the Australian Group Jetty Road at Grandview Stage Resort. I did not enjoy this concert as much as I enjoyed Fred Eaglesmith. The sound mixing was not well done so it was often difficult to hear the voices. In addition, the two female singers were twins so there was little variation in vocal sound. Nevertheless, all were skilled musicians as well as vocalists.

8. Aina, Madison, and I attended a baby shower for niece Vanessa and new baby Genesis Faith, held at niece Melanie's home in Edmonton.

9. Kingman 100-year Reunion: My sister Alice reunited with a former boyfriend, Bill Hafner. It is exciting to share in her joy!! Alfie Myrhe, recalling the influence of the Baptist Bible Camp on his youth, played some old-time gosped tunes on his violin at the Sunday morning service. He also played "Danny Boy" in tribute to my Dad. I was not the only one wiping tears from my eyes!!

10. On a sad note, my Uncle Des passed away in July. He was a gentle spirit with a delightful sense of humour. He was widely read and could converse on a large range of topics.


August Highlights:


1. Two weeks in Quebec with sister Alice and her friend Linda. Another posting for this....

2. Madison spending last two weeks of August with us. She did a week of swimming lessons in Sundre last week (level 3.) She did not pass this level yet but hopefully gained confidence.

3. An afternoon visit from Grandson Spencer who was spending a week or so at the Lenz's, maternal grandparents.

4. Shilo School 100-year Anniversary. Excellent potluck and campfire music with Frank, Dick, and Jo Foesier, Bob Hall, and Merv Taylor.

5. Arrival of replica of Viking ship and Viking reenactment of dress and battles at Danish Canadian Museum in Spruce View.

6. Awareness (through CKUA) of music of Willy DeVille who recently passed.

NOTE: I would have like to have arranged my photos creatively throughout the text but am having difficulty with that process. I cannot get my 'cut and paste' to function in the blogger, and am not sure why. I've done it successfully before. Have I forgotten the process or do I need a new computer?!!

Over Three Months Later.....

The vacation I have been looking forward to for so long is now only two sleeps away!! Alice and I are flying from Edmonton at 10:00 a.m. Saturday to Montreal. We will be spending two weeks in Quebec, the first week near Quebec City and the second near Montreal. Alice's friend Linda Rae will be joining us the second week. Helge is taking me to Red Deer tomorrow for my Herceptin treatment at the Cancer Center. Afterwards he is taking me to Laurel's where I will spend the night. Laurel has asked Leroy and Marian and us for supper so I am looking forward to that, too!

Kingman Centennial: Last Friday evening Madison and I spent the night with her Mom in Red Deer. We left Red Deer early Saturday morning, picked up Alice at Laurel's place in Leduc, and headed for Kingman. We were there in time for the parade at 10:30 a.m. We found a shady spot on the south side of the street, along with Joy and Orville, and enjoyed watching the parade. Madison was kept busy collecting candies that were thrown to the children. After the parade I was talking to my old school friend, Vern Peterson. Madison became impatient so Alice said she would go on ahead with Madison and I could catch up. Vern asked me to join him for coffee in the Museum. Alice and Madison came back to the museum to find us. We ended up spending a couple of hours in the Museum. We enjoyed visiting with old friends of my parents, Quong Mah and his wife. I was happy to meet an old school friend, Seem Mah, for the first time in about 50 years. My cousin Fern Bjorgum and her husband Paul came along so we had a good visit with them. (Fern has recently been diagnosed with breast cancer.) Jane Ross was visiting with Bill Hafner, whom I didn't recognize at first. She pulled up a chair for me and I joined in . Then I invited Alice over as Bill was an old friend of hers..............

TREATMENT UPDATE

Lots of snow between cabin and tent

The snow is retreating.

Beautiful spray of roses. Thanks, Marilyn!

Has anyone been more spoiled than I? I had an appointment at the Red Deer Cancer Center this morning at 10:00 a.m. for a Herceptin treatment. After my treatment I met my friend Marilyn Martin in the hospital cafeteria for lunch. She treated me to a beautiful rainbow spray of roses as well as lunch. We had an enjoyable though short visit. I feel so fortunate to have had ongoing support throughout my treatment for breast cancer!!

Anna at the Cancer Center printed off my schedule for radiation treatment. It begins on April 29th and ends on May 28th. Treatment is at the Cancer Center in Edmonton. I will probably stay with Kai during that time. Central AB Imaging called today also. I have an appointment for a MUGA scan for May 1st in Red Deer. Dr. Tarakandirwa, my oncologist, ordered the scan. As Herceptin can affect the heart, I am being closely monitored.

After lunch today I went to Carstar to have the right rear-view mirror replaced on my car. The remainder of the body work is booked for June 10th. I'm glad this fits in with my treatment schedule so I won't have to adjust any appointments.

Driving home from Red Deer today I enjoyed listening to an interview with and music by Tom Philips (Men of Constant Sorrow.) It has been a beautiful, sunny day. The temperature at this moment (5:20 p.m.) is +9.

CANMORE, EDMONTON, AND EASTER

THE CANMORE EXPERIENCE:

Alice, Laurel, and Kayli arrived at my place on the afternoon of Tuesday, March 31st to pick me up en route to Canmore where Alice had booked a five-day holiday at the Elkhorn Lodges. Before we left I made a large pot of coffee to fill all the travel mugs, and we all had a snack/lunch. It was a good thing that Laurel was driving her van as some of us do not travel light!! With Laurel's massage table and my clothing and activities for any possible event, the van was almost fully loaded. After leaving my home we travelled straight to Canmore with no stops.

Upon arrival in Canmore we went directly to the Elkhorn Lodges and checked in. We were all impressed by our small but cosy and practically-designed accommodation. Alice and I shared a bedroom with queen-sized bed, ensuite bathroom, and TV. Laurel and Kayli shared a room with twin beds, and a bathroom across the hallway. The kitchen, dining, and living room formed an open area. The living room had a TV and fireplace, as well as a door opening on to a patio.

After we unpacked and got settled in, we headed for Main Street. None of us felt like cooking so ate supper that first evening at Murrietta's. This restaurant is large and on the second floor of the building, at the top of a wide, beautifully tiled staircase. There are large overhead beams and large windows on two sides with mountain views. There are many eating areas including lounge, bar tables by the window, and low tables with chequered tablecloths by the window or not. That first evening my sisters and I ordered the roasted half chicken with maple-roasted yam stuffing and garlic mashed potatoes. It was so delicious and so amply-sized that it provided lunch for the next day.

Day 2, Wednesday: Kayli brought coffee to Alice and I in bed. After our coffee we had oatmeal porridge made by Laurel with Alice's organic oats. Mmmm... Eventually we got ourselves ready for the outdoor heated pool and hot tub which we so enjoyed. After a leftover lunch we headed to town for some shopping. We had afternoon coffee at Continen-tea and bought tickets for the evening's live performance. After that it was more shopping. We ran out of time to return to our rooms to cook supper and freshen up for our evening outing. Thus we had a quick supper at A&W, then returned to Continen-tea. We found a table adjacent to the stage, and enjoyed performances by Ben Sures, and also the Painted Birds. I ordered a chai latte and let my sisters and Kayli sample. Kayli enjoyed it so much that it took some cajoling to get her to return my drink!!

Day 3, Thursday: I tried my hand at some cooking. I made spinach frittatas for breakfast with eggs from our chickens. In the evening I made a bison stew with Helge's root vegies and bison from the Lee family. Again we enjoyed the outdoor pool and hot tub. Laurel had purchased a ball so we enjoyed playing ball games in the water. It was a good way for me to exercise my left arm. When we were indoors we played scrabble online and off, did some origami, and watched TV. Alice especially enjoys her home shows. Again on Thursday, we made time for shopping.

Day 4, Friday: Did we miss our swimming? We went shopping again, and had an awesome lunch at the Rocky Mountain Flatbread Company. My sisters and I ordered the soup/flatbread pizza special. The soup was made from maple roasted yam(or squash?) The pizza was baked in a stone oven and was a delightful combination of pesto, spinach, tomato, etc. This restaurant uses organic ingredients for the most part so Alice made a good contact for potential buyer for her organic wheat and oats. Here are a couple of quotes from the wall of this restaurant:

"Choose your farmer with the same care as your pastor, lawyer, doctor, or any other professional." Tom Willey
"Cooking is like love. It should be entered into with abandon or not at all." Harriet Van Horne

After returning to our room to freshen up, we met Fred Majocha and his new wife Val at Murrietta's for supper. (Fred was married to my first cousin Marie who sadly lost her battle with breast cancer three years ago.) Again it was dining at its best. Val and I enjoyed the Bouillabaise. After supper, Fred and Val returned with us to our accommodation where we enjoyed more great visiting. Fred brought his digital photo frame and showed us some pictures of his and Val's travels.

Day 5, Saturday: Alice's friend, Linda (formerly Linda Flemming from Kingman) arrived from Calgary to visit. We all enjoyed the hot tub and swimming pool together. Alice and Linda went to Continen-tea for lunch. Linda said that their chai lattes were the best she had ever tasted!! Laurel, Kayli and I enjoyed leftovers (flatbread pizza, etc.) After Alice returned and Linda said goodbye we once again headed for town. One of our enjoyable activities was wine tasting at the Canmore Wine Merchants. Saturday evening Laurel made a great supper with spaghetti and homemade sauce, steamed vegies, and salad. We enjoyed our meal with wine and fresh bread. Dessert was chocolate-dipped strawberries and Haagen Dazs ice cream.

Sunday, April 5th: Our holiday came to an end all too quickly. We checked out between 10 and 11 in the morning. Then, once again, we headed for Main Street. We had booked the Quarry for breakfast. This restaurant had a contemporary feel. We sat by the window, enjoying the mountain view as well as the bouquet of pussy willows, fresh lilies, and branch with berries. Laurel and Alice said their omelets were the best they had every had. Kayli had sweet french toast made with the restaurant's own homemade challah bread. It was beautiful presented in layers with whipped cream and berries. Kayli was happy she had made such a good choice. I had the chorizo sausage bowl. It consisted of a hash with chunks of potato, peas, tomatoes, spinach, and sausage. This was topped by two poached eggs. The hash combination was not one I would have ever thought of but was phenomenal. Our egg dishes were accompanied by an excellent multigrain toast. Like the challah bread, the multigrain bread was also made by the restaurant. This restaurant was committed to using mostly organic products.

After our breakfast, we did some last minute shopping. Then we went to a book sale at the Canmore public library. We came away with six grocery bags full of books, and craftily managed to fit them into Laurel's van. We then headed for home. It was about 5 in the afternoon when Laurel dropped me off at my home.

It was great to spend some quality time with my sisters Alice and Laurel, and my niece Kayli. The setting was perfect. The holiday was a real treat after several months of treatment for breast cancer, and a winter that is in no great hurry to leave. I indulged in shopping, and enjoyed every moment especially after lying low for so long!! I found a pair of dress pants and a denim suit on sale at Toccata's. I also purchased an overtop (pink/black/white), a dressy t-shirt, a white silk scarf, and a turquoise handbag at Toccata's. At the book shop I found a beautiful lavender cashmere and silk pashmina and more origami books for my collection. Alice and I bought silver pendants handcrafted by Christine Phillipe at one of the local galleries. We also found some treasures on sale at Mementoes. The owner is selling out and heading to Vancouver to study esthetics. The Rocky Mountain Soap Company, the Quilt Shop, and Two Wolves Trading Company were other favorite stops. With so many fun places to shop, and excellent dining, it is a good thing our holiday was so short!!

EDMONTON:
After I arrived home I repacked my bags and watered my plants before leaving for Edmonton. Helge was at Caroline's Rhythm and Rhyme. I was hoping to see him before I left. I left at 7:00 p.m. Talking to him via phone later that evening I learned that I had missed him by minutes. About 15 minutes away from home heading east on Hwy 54 I hit a deer. I saw it in time to swerve to the left so I did not hit it head on. It hit the right rear-view mirror and bounced off the right side of my vehicle. The car was still operational and I was fine so I continued on my journey to Edmonton. I stayed with Kai, Jocelyn, and Sonja while I was there.

I was up just after 5 on Monday morning to allow myself enough time to get ready and to get to the Cancer Center by 8:30 p.m. Although I had not been there before, I found it without difficulty and was, in fact, early. I had a brief exam by Dr. Nijjar, the radiation oncologist. Then I headed to the mould room. There were two mould therapists, Lucille and Diana, as well as a student, Winter. The sink contained a plaster-of-paris mixture. The therapists took strips of fabric about 5 by 20 inches, soaked them in the plaster-of-paris, and covered my chest from waist to chin. The first layer was applied carefully, fitting into every little nook and making sure there were no bubbles. A second layer was added for strength. They scratched my name onto the mould. After about 5 minutes of drying, the mould was removed. I sat up and looked at a very familiar, fine-looking mould sitting on the counter!!

After my appointment, I headed for Whyte Ave. to do some exploring. I discovered an interesting little shop called Arti Facts just north of the Strathcona Hotel. They import exotic jewelry, clothing, furniture, etc. I told the owner David and assistant Tina that I was looking for a source of origami paper. David showed me how to make a flapping bird from a waterbomb base. (The usual one is made from a crane base.) Tina told me that she had a Korean man who doesn't speak any English coming to teach origami to a small group of adults in her home. She took my name and phone number. At another shop, I discovered Troll Beads. Making a charm bracelet with Pandora Beads is on my wish list. I was delighted to discover Troll as well. Both originate in Denmark and have online websites. I guess it is no surprise that I am drawn to Scandinavian design. I went to Chianti's for lunch and who do you suppose I ran in to? My lifelong friend from my Sunday School and school days, Sharon Winder-Nelson. What a coincidence, considering this was only my second visit to Chianti's. She introduced me to Diane Simonson, the daughter of Gladys who was my grade 3/4 teacher. After Whyte Ave. I checked out Southgate Mall. I found a nice deep blue cotton pullover as well as a fuschia/black/white overtop. (After my mastectomy I am looking for necklines that are not too low.) I feel well prepared for summer now except for some casual sandals. Where is Summer?!! Or how about Spring?

I enjoyed a relaxed Tuesday morning. That meant sleeping in, making my own breakfast, talking to Helge on the phone, calling the Innisfail RCMP, and watching Regis and Kelly. In the afternoon I went to visit Auntie Janet. She had her picture window in the living room replaced that morning. We visited and had coffee at her place. Later on, she took me to supper at the new Sawmill Restaurant at Capilano. It was steak night. We both ordered the 5 oz top sirloin. The toppers were free. Auntie Janet ordered peppercorn sauce. I ordered the neptune topper with lobster, scallop, shrimp and hollandaise sauce. We both had baked potatoes and fresh vegies. The dessert of angel food, whipped cream, and berries was included. It was an excellent meal, and one of the rare times I have ordered steak. After our meal we enjoyed a lovely visit with Auntie Janet's friends, Evelyn and Norman Jensen. Evelyn recently underwent a mastectomy also. Auntie Janet had prepared some vegetable barley soup to take to her. When I return to Edmonton for five weeks of radiation therapy, Auntie Janet says she expects to see me every week. I look forward to that as we always enjoy each other's company. I returned to Kai's about 9:30 p.m. Sonja, Courtney, and I then went to the theatre for the late show. They went to their pick. I enjoyed Duplicity with Clive Owen and Julia Roberts.

Wednesday, it was back to the Cancer Center. The first stop was the mould room. The plaster-of-paris mould was used to create a plastic shield. The shield was fitted to my chest. Four pieces of plastic were used to attach the shield to the plastic beneath my back. Each of the four pieces was approximately 2 by 10 inches. A propane torch was used to heat each piece of plastic and then a right angle was made at one end of each of the four pieces. A drill was then used to drill screw holes into the short folded ended of each piece. Each of these pieces was then attached by screws to the piece of plastic I was laying on. The other end of each of these four pieces was attached with chloroform to the shield. The next step was a CT scan with the shield in place. This scan will help Dr. Nijjar plan my treatment. After the scan, I had radiation education with one of the radiation therapists. Throughout this entire procedure, I was treated very well. I always had excellent guidance on what to expect, and where to go next. I am to be notified by April 22nd regarding the start date of my radiation treatment. After my appointment, I met my cousin Marlene at Earl's on the University Campus. Neither of us had had lunch so she treated me. We had a wonderful visit. I enjoyed hearing of her plans for Guyana in July and Open Studies in September.

Thursday morning I left Edmonton. Helge had made an appointment for me at Carstar in Red Deer to have an estimate of the damage done to my vehicle when I hit the deer. (The estimate total was $6079. Approximately $1500 of this estimate is parts; the remainder is labour cost.) Next was lunch, picking up a Recreation Program guide at the Rec Center, and a few groceries at Superstore. Then it was off to Innisfail to file an accident report at the Innisfail RCMP. After that was completed, I bought some more groceries at the Co-op, had some supper, then headed home. When I arrived home, the cabin was empty as I knew it would be. Helge was at the annual REA meeting in Leslieville. By time he arrived home I had unpacked the car, put away groceries, and had some down time. It was so good to be home again.

EASTER WEEKEND:

Easter lilies - what a beautiful fragrance!

On Good Friday, Helge and I enjoyed a quiet day at home. Saturday morning my friend, Judie Doran from Rocky Mtn House, called and asked if I wanted to go with her to the CCHA National Cutting Horse Competition at the Olds arena. This was my introduction to the sport of cutting. I was glad to gain some insight, and hope to watch Judie when she competes at one of the Central AB competitions this spring/summer. Judie treated me to a homemade burger at the arena concession, and to a latte and snack at the Coffee Binge in Sundre on our way home. Another fun day!!

On Easter Sunday we had a lovely Easter dinner with Aina, Madison, and Sonja at Aina's home in Red Deer. (Trevor was in Saskatchewan visiting his sons and mother. Kai and Jocelyn were not there as Kai was on IV three times daily for an infection in his elbow. Jarl and Rebecca and family will be down from Peace River later this month as Jarl has a conference in Banff.) Aina cooked a delicious dinner with ham, scalloped potatoes, coleslaw, and grilled asparagas and zucchini. We enjoyed two sparkling white wines. Aina had one by Jacob's Creek, and I brought Bimbadgen, a South Australian wine that I had purchased in Canmore. Appetizers included raw vegies and dip as well as nachos and salsa. Low-fat desserts included a coffee cheesecake, strawberry pie with whipped cream, angel food cake with whipped cream and strawberries, and chocolate eggs and jelly belly beans. It was a beautiful, sunny day. We ate our meal at the outside table on the deck. We also enjoyed a fire in the firepit. Later in the day, we enjoyed watching the movie Pursuit of Happyness. I had always wanted to see it so was glad to find it on satellite TV.

Now I'm having a reality adjustment after so much spoiling. That means laundry, meal preparation, washing and drying dishes, etc. Nevertheless, I am happy to have time at home. It snowed last night and this morning. Now the sun is shining and the temperature is +2. The snow is rapidly disappearing. Surprisingly I have not gained any weight with all the good life. I am looking forward to being more active with the good weather. That means lots of walking and some swimming, too. I have an appointment in Red Deer on Thursday for another Herceptin treatment and am looking forward to meeting my friend Marilyn Martin afterwards for lunch.
How blessed I am!!

P.S. I did not take any pictures at Canmore. My battery went a few days before we left for Canmore. I didn't remember that the battery with my digital camera was rechargable, or even that I had used the recharger. I was stuck in a time warp thinking I had to buy a new battery like I did with my old 35mm. What is wrong with my head? Hopefully I can get a few pictures later on from Alice to add to my blog.

Warmed by the Support of Family and Friends

It is just over four weeks since I had surgery. I am feeling quite well these days. The swelling and numbness in the breast/underarm area has virtually disappeared. The mobility of my left arm is increasing daily, and I am able to get through a few days at a time without napping.

Madison, my granddaughter, was on Spring Break last week and spent the week with us. We all had a great time. I had appointments on Thursday and Helge had meetings. Madison chose to spend the day with her Grandfather. They went to a meeting at the Caroline Complex in the morning to support the opening of a venue for Boys and Girls Club along with theatre on main street. Reg Dean is opposed to this venture. There was a good turn out at the meeting with strong support in favor of the venture. Later in the afternoon Madison and Helge went to Rocky to attend a meeting hosted by West Country Stakeholders. This group, funded by oil and gas companies operating in the Clearwater County, exists to minimize conflict between the companies and landowners. Various companies set up tables and handed out promotional freebies. Madison enjoyed going from table to table visiting with the company reps and collecting goodies like water bottles, magnifiers, magnets, pens and notebooks.

Madison took over the living area with her DVD watching and paper crafts. She enjoys cutting, gluing, drawing and coloring. We watched "Beauty and the Beast" together, and also made chocolate chip cookies. Madison sleeps with a little stuffed puppy that I gave her a couple of years ago. One evening she said to me, "Puppy was scared when he heard you had cancer, but I wasn't scared because I knew you would live."

My Thursday appointment was for a Herceptin treatment, the first since January 21st (last chemo). Linda, the social worker, came to see me during my treatment. We ended up having lunch together in the hospital cafeteria. We get along very well. We are both free spirits who love shoppping for clothes and jewelry. After leaving the hospital I went to Shopper's Drug by Michael's to purchase my mastectomy swimsuit and prostheses. As it was the last Thursday of the month I got a 20% discount.

I have had my blue moments but they are usually short-lived. I had a wonderful surprise phone call a couple of weeks ago from a childhood friend, Penny Giles. We have not had much contact in our adult years. We had a great time catching up over the phone. Penny underwent a lumpectomy and radiation before Christmas 2008. I also had a surprise visit from the lovely Danyle Holmes (Nutting.) She brought a beautiful gift of turquoise leather covered journal, pink marble and silver pen, magnet "Women who change the World," and turquoise decorative tea towel.

On Saturday, March 28th, I met with several colleagues (Cathy, Sherry, Judy, Barb, Pat, and Loralie) for lunch at the Tivoli in Spruce View. Afterwards Barb and Judy followed me home and we had afternoon tea together. My colleagues spoiled me, once again, with fresh-cut spring flowers, homemade pie, applesauce, cookies, and muffins.

Tulips, gerbera, carnations, daisies, statice, heather, iris, alstromeria

Sunday afternoon I enjoyed visiting Jackie Cooper in Caroline. She has resigned her math teaching position. All of our children were taught by Jackie. She has a brilliant mind and is an excellent teacher of math and physics. I would say she has had an epiphany. Financially she is able to retire now due to savings as well as monies from her Mother's estate and from an insurance settlement for a vehicle accident she was in a few years ago. In addition, she has not been enjoying her classes as much as in the past. She has had a struggle with weight and is now at an all-time low which is very motivating for continued weight-loss success. She has decided to make health her #l priority. I know that she will be successful!! Jackie showed me her fantastic bead collection, then we did some bead work. I have several books on beading but Sunday I made my first creation and was so proud of myself. I made a necklace and earrings in pink/wine/silver colors. Jackie also made me a bracelet and earrings in black,silver, and crystal. Like me, Jackie enjoys swimming. We plan to go swimming together after Easter.
This evening I had a phone call and lovely visit from Fred Majocha. He was married to my first cousin Marie who passed after a battle with breast cancer three years ago. Tomorrow Alice, Laurel, Kayli and I are leaving for Canmore for a five-day stay. Alice is on Spring Break. She has a timeshare in Canmore. I talked to Fred about meeting up with him and his new wife Val for supper on Friday evening in Canmore.
I feel so blessed by the support that I have had from family and friends. I can feel my heart bulging!!

The Hospital Experience and All That

Ready for surgery, minus the hat. Note the leggings and booties.

The nurse with this stethoscope used to milk cows. Another nurse had a happy face stethoscope.

It is two weeks today since I had my surgery. It was over 20 years ago since I was last in Red Deer Hospital, for Sonja's birth. Pre-Admissions was a new experience for me. About a week before surgery I attended a Pre-Admissions Clinic. All the necessary paperwork, and exchange of information was completed at that time. The day of surgery, I reported directly to Unit 24 at 9 in the morning. I changed into hospital gear, and after a small wait was taken to the operating room. I said goodbye to Helge at the operating room doors. Who do you think I first saw when I walked through the operating room doors?? I saw two familiar faces, two correctional guards from Bowden, accompanying an inmate!! I was taken to a bay where I laid down. I was visited by the anesthetist, Dr. Ferris, and my surgeon, Dr. Topstad. At every stop along the way, checking procedures were in place. What is your name? Date of birth? Dr. Topstad marked an "X" on the correct breast. Shortly after, I was wheeled into the operating theatre. My right arm was uncovered for the IV, my left arm was uncovered for surgery. Dr. Ferris said she was going to put an oxygen mask over my mouth, and that it would have an unpleasant rubbery smell. I remember nothing after that statement. My surgery was at approximately 11 a.m. It was about 1:15 p.m. when I awoke in the recovery room. A half hour later or so I was wheeled to my room. I was so thirsty since I had not had anything to drink since before midnight the night before surgery. I sipped slowly on the refreshing ice water given to me. Within a half hour it all came back up. In spite of this I ate my supper, a fluid diet - I was hungry. Unfortunately, my supper ended up in the same place as the ice water!! Helge arrived at my room shortly after I did, and brought my belongings. About a half hour later I received a beautiful bouquet of flowers from my siblings with yellow roses, yellow and orange gerberas, yellow daisies, rustic red stargazer lilies, a pink-and-white gladiola, fernery, and a little birdhouse. Aina visited after work. Although I was very groggy I enjoyed visiting with my husband and daughter, as well as my roommate Joyce Ladd from Alhambra. My night nurse, Erika Joy, was a sweetheart and very competent, too. She went to high school in Camrose with my niece, Liana.

View from Room 2415

My beautiful flowers

On Friday morning, any sign of nausea had disappeared. I enjoyed a fluid diet for breakfast and lunch, but was on a regular diet by supper time. I had a busy morning. Peggy McTaggart, visited me from the breast clinic. She used to be a Trautman, and is a niece of Donna Trautman, whom I went to College with. She brought me a temporary prostheses, called a "puff," as well as a list of suppliers of mastectomy prostheses, bras, tank tops, lingery, and swim wear for both Red Deer and Edmonton. Peggy also brought me a little heart-shaped pillow, made by a volunteer, to tuck under my left arm for comfort. Later I was visited by the physiotherapist, a lovely young woman who emigrated from Poland three years ago. She showed me how to do several exercises for my left arm so that I don't lose mobility and I decrease the risk of lymphedema. I also had an exquisite delivery on Friday morning from Jarl, Rebecca, Spencer, and Parker: a beautiful vase with yellow and purple orchids and anthurium. My roommate Joyce went home, and I was joined by Dena from Didsbury. We did not do much visiting as she was a very private person, and was visited by her boyfriend for much of the time. My visitors on Friday were Helge and Aina and Madison. Aina and Madison each brought me a large stuffed bear. Instead of spending $10 per day for television rental Helge decided to buy me a small walkman so I could listen to my favorite radio programs. I was told that I would be spending more than one night in hospital as my hemoglobin and blood pressure were both very low. Dr. Topstad had the weekend off but asked the surgeon-on-call, Dr. Panayides to check in on me. I was also told that I would be moved to another unit as soon as a bed was available. The idea is to empty out Unit 24 to have it ready for the next week's surgery patients.

Aina, Madison, and the bears

Madison and the polar bear

On Saturday afternoon around 3:30 I was moved to Unit 21. My new roomate was Mrs. Campbell (first name escapes me at the moment.) She was very congenial, and we had a good time visiting. I was not terribly impressed by the atmosphere of Unit 21, and was not totally confident in the care of some of the nurses. My roommate had a broken ankle. I turned the lights out a 9:00 p.m. An hour later, all the overhead lights were turned on as they came to take my roommate for surgery. No one turned them off. I thought perhaps they might be coming back to the room. After about a half hour I got up and turned out the lights. At midnight they returned my partner from surgery so, once again, there were bright lights and lots of noise. I did not get much rest that night!!

Sunday morning after breakfast, my partner's sister, husband and daughter visited from Alder Flats. They brought Tim Horton's coffee (in a 8 - 10 cup cardboard container) and cookies. It was party time, and I was included. We had a lovely social time. Sunday afternoon I went home with a prescription for iron (ferrous sulphate) to raise my hemoglobin levels.

Monday was a quiet home day. On Tuesday I went to the home care nurse in Sundre to have my dressing changed, and my progress observed. After that I bought groceries at Sobeys. Moneywise the timing was good. With the 10% Tuesday and my Sobeys card I saved about $25.
Healthwise, I may have been too ambitious. Tuesday evening I was in agony with pain. Up until this time I had not had any pain. Extra-strength Tylenol helped me cope with the pain. I did not return to Sundre home care until Friday as I was expecting to go to Red Deer on Wednesday or Thursday. Dr. Panayides had requested a midweek follow-up appointment for me with Dr. Topstad. His requests had not been carried out. When I called to check I was not able to get a booking with Dr. Topstad. Audrey, the home care nurse, thought the site of my drainage tube insertion looked like it might be infected. She referred me to Dr. Raj, the doctor on call at Sundre Hospital. Dr. Raj prescribed an antibiotic. Within 24 hours of antibiotic the pain was gone. Each drainage tube had a plastic hand-grenade shaped container (Jackson Pratt or JP) attached to the end. I was taught how to empty these, and did so two or three times daily. I was so thankful that Helge did all the meal prep and dish washing my first week home. Sunday morning I had a yearning for waffles and breakfast sausage, so I cooked breakfast. I have been doing most of the cooking and dishes since. It takes me a while since I stop for rests, but I get there eventually!!

On Monday of this week I had a follow-up appointment with Dr. Topstad. She removed my drainage tubes to reduce the risk of any further infection. I was so thankful to be rid of those!! It has been so much easier to rest and sleep without having those JPs at my side. Tuesday afternoon Rebecca and Spencer and Parker visited. They were down from Peace River for a few days. It was so nice to see them, and always sad to say goodbye. Rebecca spoiled me with adding three more pieces to my Emile Henri "granny" collection: two dinner plates, and a rectangular serving tray. Thursday morning I had an appointment in Red Deer with Dr. Nijjar, the radiation oncologist from Edmonton, who comes to the Red Deer Cancer Center once per month. He said that of the twelve lymph nodes removed, only four were viable. I would need to have both the chest and underarm area radiated. It is possible that they will build a shield for me to protect other organs, like my lungs, from radiation. Radiation will be once per week day for 5 weeks, starting probably mid-April at the Cancer Center in Edmonton. I am trying to get accommodation at Compassion House during that time. I could certainly stay with Kai and Sonja, and will do so if necessary, but I like the idea of staying with other women who are going through experiences similar to mine. (Of course I will want to visit with family.) I also saw Dr. Topstad on Thursday. She used a syringe to drain the buildup of fluid that had occurred since having my drainage tubes removed. (From the drainage point of view the tubes had been removed too early.) After I left the hospital, I checked out the Shoppers Drug Store down by Tony Roma's in south Red Deer. I wanted to checked out their mastectomy supplies. Lydia was very helpful and thoughtful in showing me what was available. Although the selection of swimwear was small, I found a swimsuit I really liked and that fit almost perfectly. They have a special prostheses for swimwear. It will take on the smell of the water you swim in (chlorine) so is not what you might want to wear daily. It is also a mold rather than a solid form like the permanent prostheses. I was intrigued by "Bean-a-Boob," a lightweight prostheses filled with beans (as in bean bags) that can be shaped to any type of bra you might wear. I will not be fitted for a permanent prosthesis until 6-8 weeks following radiation.

Thursday, March 12th, Red Deer

This morning Red Deer Cancer center called with my first radiation appointment. I have to be at the Cross Cancer Center in Edmonton on April 9th at 10:30 a.m. This is a preliminary appointment with exam, simulation, and education. I expect treatment will probably start the following week. My next follow-up appointment with Dr. Topstad is this coming Monday, March 16th. Thus I will have a few quiet days at home. I am enjoying this beautiful weather (7C+ on Friday the 13th, just past noon.) What a contrast to the -30C of a few days ago. It is so much easier to relax when the weather is mild!! I am so looking forward to my holiday with Alice, Laurel and Kayli in Canmore at the end of the month.

Musically Speaking: Did you know that comedian/actor Steve Martin is a skilled banjo player? He has just released a CD, The Crow, Steve Martin. Collaborators on this CD are Dolly Parton, Vince Gill, and Earl Scruggs. Add it to the wish list!!

Facing Reality

Reflections: A week from today I will be undergoing a modified radical mastectomy. As long as I was going through chemotherapy, I put surgery at the back of my mind. Now reality is staring me in the face!! I am not thrilled at what lies ahead of me but I am trying to put this event in perspective. I can be thankful that I have lived 60 years with no major health concerns. I have been given the privilege of being a parent four times over and have breastfed all four children. I am not losing an eye, an arm, or a leg. I am still alive!! I have talked to several women who have experienced breast cancer. Amazingly, no two stories are the same. Every diagnosis is different as is every treatment. By outward appearances nothing seems to have changed in their lives! These women are inspirations for me.

Treatment: On February 11th, I had a MUGA scan and some blood work. A week later, on the 18th I went to the Pre-Admissions clinic at the Red Deer hospital. I answered all sorts of health-related questions and was given information on what to expect next week and how to get prepared. I also had more blood work, an ECG, and a chest xray. On Monday I will be having a consult with the anaesthetist. My legs and feet are still swollen but I think there is some improvement.

Family and Friends: Sonja, Aina, Madison and Trevor had supper with us on February 15th. Sonja also stayed for a few days as it was Reading Week for University of Alberta students. After my appointment and some shopping in Red Deer on February 18th, I headed for Innisfail. Judy Hopkins hosted afterwork coffee and snacks for my colleagues and me. I have met with my colleagues regularly since my diagnosis. Time with family and friends are wonderful spirit boosters!!

The Beatles , Buddy Holly, Bush Fires and Me

It was 45 years ago that The Beatles appeared on the Ed Sullivan Show. That was their introduction to America. Does anyone remember that event? 50 years ago Buddy Holly was killed in a plane crash. While I ironed Helge's shirts this evening I enjoyed listening to Roy Forbes' tribute to Buddy Holly on CKUA.

Red Deer Hospital called today. My surgery is confirmed for February 26th. I also called the Cancer Center regarding the swelling of my legs and feet. My information on the antibody Herceptin tells me that this is a side effect. I expressed my concerns to the nurse Eileen. I told her that I did not want to have the Herceptin treatment that is scheduled for February 11th as I want to be in the best possible condition for my upcoming surgery. She spoke with the oncologist, Dr. Tarukandirwa. He said that I may need more time to overcome the side effects and accepted my wish to delay Herceptin until after surgery. What's next? This week, on February 11th, I am having a MUGA scan (looks at heart function) and blood work. Next week, on February 18th, I go to Pre-Admissions at Red Deer Hospital to find out all I need to know before surgery. I am coping by taking one day at a time and dealing with the issues as they arise.

I am saddened by the terrible tragedy in Victoria, Australia. So many lives and homes have been lost because of the extreme bush fires. Meanwhile, residents of Queensland especially along the coast in the Ingham area are facing flooding conditions.

Memorable Birthdays

Memories:

Childhood birthdays meant celebrating with family. One early birthday picture shows me with siblings Alice and Keith, cousins Harold, Fred, and Orville, and Auntie Beulah. Over the years Mom made many wonderful chiffon cakes for my birthday. There were chocolate chip chiffons, cherry chiffons, and poppyseed chiffons with apricot filling. When we were very young, Mom always decorated our cakes with marshmallows cut into bunny shapes. I remember a treasure hunt for one birthday. It took me on an outdoor adventure but ended indoors in the washing machine, my gift being a cool set of building blocks. (This was prior to the invention of LEGO.)

The first time that I was to have a birthday party with friends was for my 13th birthday. No doubt, the February weather had some impact on whether or not one would have a party. I very much looked forward to this party but ended up sick in bed with the flu. We didn't have a phone at that time so could not let anyone know that there would be no party. Thus friends arrived, greeted me in bed, and then went on their way. Mom, best friend Sharon Winder-Nelson, sister Alice, and boyfriend Max planned a surprise party for my 18th. What a delightful surprise it was! Mom served homemade buns filled with a mixture of tuna, cheese, onion, and mushroom soup heated in the oven. After all these years what I remember is how surprised I was and how good those buns were!! When I turned 21, I was in my fourth and final year of university at the U of A in Edmonton. I recall my friend Paul buying a nice bottle of wine. In those days the magic number was 21, not 18 as it is now.

The next birthday that stands out in my memory was my 40th birthday. We were living in Acme at the time and moving from the Doc Fowler house ,which we had been renting, to the Mrs. Greenway house which we purchased. (The Fowler house had a basement made with stone from the Bow River. Mrs. Greenway was famous for her homemade cookies and was known to have given piano lessons to Wilf Carter.) In the midst of moving my cousin Janet Hovis (nee Bjorgum) arrived with a homemade cake. It was perfect timing and such a treat! My 50th birthday was also full of surprises. We celebrated at the Legion in Caroline. I was expecting a few friends, my husband and children, my parents and siblings. I was delighted to find Auntie Beulah and Sharon Winder-Nelson there as well!!

This Year:

Granddaughter Madison spent two nights with us, January 30th and 31st. Aina wrote her Module 3 Accounting Exam on January 31st. Helge was in Calgary for a conference for Newspaper reporters. Madison is good at entertaining herself so is easy to have around even if one is not feeling 100%. We did spend some time doing origami together, though. I showed her how to make a black-and-white panda. Sunday morning I dropped off Madison at her home in Red Deer and headed for Laurel's home in Leduc.

Laurel organized a wonderful party for me. Guests included Alice, Keith and Theresa, Glenn, Michelle, Tyler, Braden, and Erika. Laurel and three daughters Megan, Tamara, and Kayli were also present. Laurel and Michelle created a whirlwind in the kitchen, as always. We had kabobs with colored peppers, pineapple, red onions, and marinated meats done to perfection on the barbecue. This was accompanied by a delightful brown/wild rice pilaf an, excellent spinach salad, and good wine. Alice brought a mocha chiffon cake created by her wonderful cake-baking neighbour. I was spoiled with beautiful cards and gifts. Megan wrote a beautiful handwritten note on her card and included in her gift a pendant that had belonged to Mom. This pendant was passed on to Megan after Mom passed away. It consists of a small piece of metal with a Norwegian rune on one side and the word 'strength' engraved on the other. Megan said that she thought I needed it more than her at this time. What a lovely thought! Glenn was somewhat shocked at the delight that the 'girls' and I took in a daily "Handbag" calendar, a gift from Alice. This prompted much gaiety and some fun photos with the 'girls' and their handbags. (I was happy that brother Glenn took pictures of my birthday. It was only a month previous that he had taken our photos at the Christmas celebration at Laurel's. Our look would not have changed, but I liked the idea of commemorating different events with photos.) We enjoyed much laughter over Keith and Glenn's favorite You-Tubes also.

I stayed Sunday night at Laurel's. Monday morning the girls and Laurel headed to school and work, respectively. I enjoyed a leisurely morning watching Regis and Kelly and enjoying Rocky Mountain lavender bath salts in Laurel's jacuzzi. I also received birthday calls from Auntie Hazel, Auntie Laurie, and cousin Ken. I met two of Megan's friends who came home with her for lunch. After lunch, I left Laurel's and went to visit Auntie Janet in Edmonton. We had a nice, but too short visit. Auntie Janet is downsizing. She gave me a small Norwegian plate and a plate of the Blue Boy that was a shower gift to her from Mom.

After leaving Auntie Janet's I headed to Kai's place. ( Kai had been in Grande Cache since early January. I knew he was coming home for a short break in February, and was pleasantly surprised when I discovered he would be in Edmonton for my birthday.) Jocelyn(Kai's girlfriend), Aina and Madison, and I all arrived at the same time. Sonja was home already and Kai had not returned yet from errands downtown. We arranged to meet Kai at Moxie's for supper. We were all in Aina's vehicle except for Jocelyn who stayed home as she was not feeling well. On the way to Moxie's Kai called. He wanted to escort his Mother to supper!! Thus we met at Esso, and I jumped out of Aina's car and into Kai's. Then I hung on and kept my mouth shut as he manoeuvred through the traffic and showed me the wonderful pickup of his Lexus sedan!! The girls and I enjoyed our usual Tandoori salmon salad at Moxie's. I was even treated to dessert with a sparkler. We said goodbye to Kai and headed for Rexall Place.

By the time we reached Rexall Place there was still a fair lineup. We finally got in but the parking lot was rather full. Thus we parked some distance away and had a substantial and hurried hike. Fortunately, we were seated within a few minutes of So You Think You Can Dance Canada? starting. The show was certainly worth the anticipation, and worth the hike. It was emceed by the dancers themselves, usually in pairs. This certainly gave an opportunity to see more of each individual dancer's personality. Although I hadn't been especially impressed with Izaak on TV, I thought he really spoke and performed well in the show. After the couple introduced an act they would go backstage and get ready for their next performance. Between runny eyes from chemo and emotional response to the dancing, my eyes ran for the full first half of the performance!! Some highlights for me were Natalli and partner doing disco, "The Mirror" with Lisa and Vincent, African jazz with Lisa and partner, Allie and Danny's jive, Allie and Izaak's hip hop, Kaitlyn and Izaak's restaurant number, and Nico and Arassay's "Guardian Angel" dancing to Queen's "Somebody to Love." That music of Queen will get me going any time!! Each dancer performed individually, the top four performed together, and the top ten also performed together (pirate number with colorful costumes was one). We had seats on the floor close to the stage, but also enjoyed the three large screens which gave close-up views. It was a memorable experience, for sure! There was memorabilia for sale, but none of us felt like standing in line or fighting the crowds.

Tuesday was another easy-paced morning. Sonja and I enjoyed visiting over breakfast which she had prepared for both of us. Then she left for university. Kai returned from the gym and we had a little visit. I left around noon and headed for IKEA where I bought a new carpet for my living room and some more shelving brackets. Then it was off to Red Deer for appointments.

Red Deer and progress of treatment: My first appointment was at the Breast Clinic with Dr. Topstad. At my previous appointment she had forgotten to tell me about a dark area on rib number four behind my left breast. Neither a bone scan nor a chest x-ray have been able to clearly identify the source of the dark area. If it was cancerous it would not make sense to do surgery, she said. She also told me that my oncologist recommended surgery and that the final decision was up to me. After my appointment with Dr. Topstad I went to the Cancer Center and had my PICC line removed. I am so happy to have that contraption off my right arm!! As soon as I feel up to it I'm going swimming again!

It was good to be home again Tuesday evening. I had Wednesday at home, then headed to Red Deer on Thursday for an appointment with my oncologist, Dr. Tarukandirwa. He was pleased with my response to chemo, described the spot on my rib as non-specific and recommended surgery as soon as possible. I have decided to go ahead with surgery. I am not worried about my rib. I have no pain in that area. I also had a couple of good falls last year wherein I may have bruised my ribs.

My main concern of the moment is my response to the antibody Herceptin. I am shortwinded with a small amount of exertion. I have been extremely tired and have been having 2 - 3 hour afternoon naps in addition to my nightly quota of about 9 hours. I haven't been doing my usual walking as my hamstrings and calves feel so weak and sore. I noticed today that my ankles and calves are very swollen. Now it makes sense why the scale jumped 5 - 7 pounds mid week in only a day or so. I am retaining fluid! Tomorrow I shall call the Cancer Center and talk to the head nurse, Myrna. I am scheduled for a MUGA scan, blood work, and another Herceptin treatment on Thursday. I have decided that I do not want any more Herceptin treatments at this time. I want to be in the best possible condition before I go for surgery at the end of the month.

Shopping: I have added a few more pieces of Emile Henri 'granny' green dinnerware to my collection. I enjoy how the color green brings the outdoors indoors. It cheers my spirit.

Closing Thoughts: It has been a beautiful day with sun shining and temperatures between 5 and 10 degrees Celsius. I actually had a small walk today. We have two baby goats born a week ago, and two lots of puppies born over this weekend. It has been a busy couple of weeks so I am looking forward to a fairly quiet week. I have so enjoyed spending time with my family. I have also enjoyed many birthday phone calls and facebook greetings. I am truly blessed!!